Getting Unmarried^™ is a better way to get divorced. Period. The word “divorce” conjures up so many loaded thoughts: “failure,” “broken home,” “War of the Roses,” “custody battles,” “legal fees,” “lonely nights,” “financial difficulties,” etc… Divorce has historically been sad, tragic, shameful. But the Getting Unmarried™ method means something entirely different.

The Getting Unmarried^™ process is uplifting. It is a major shift in your perspective. You will go through major transitions, and rather than do so with fear, you will move through all of the changes with thought, compassion, hope, and renewed meaning.

Think of all the time, thought and effort you put into getting married. You chose the perfect venue, florist, caterer, officiant, musician. You wrote your vows from the depth of your soul. The guest list and seating chart were major headaches, turned into heroic victories. Searching for the dress took dedication, vision, and persistence. And I haven’t even touched on what it took to find your spouse!!! You had values, hopes, dreams, intentions, goals, a plan for your future. Getting married was a true labor of love.

Well, it will be the same when you work with Getting Unmarried^™…only different. 😉 Just like your beginning your marriage, you will need a lot of love when you end it. Only now the love will be for yourself, your children, and your new life. Love will play a factor in forgiveness, and having patience with yourself while you learn new skills, as you navigate a myriad of changes.

With every life transition it is vital to have the support you need to see you safely through. Getting Unmarried^™ is not something you do alone. You want to surround yourself with friends, family, and experts who know the ropes, and who can be a dedicated champion to your process.

There is much to learn on the path to being single again. My goal with this site is to provide resources, links, inspiration, tips, and insight into all of your options along the way. This is a collaborative process, please share your thoughts, comments and requests!

Here’s what Getting Unmarried^™ divorce coaching can do for you:

• Minimize emotional and financial damage to both yourself and those you love (your children, family, friends).

• Provide navigational information that will help you chart your course through the complicated world of divorce.

• Offer guidance, directions, insights, options, tools, information, and support through your biggest challenges.

• Elevate your thinking and strategizing to a new level; re-frame your big emotions; show love and care.

• Be a companion, guide, and champion — helping you to identify and celebrate your victories and accomplishments along the way.

• Inspire and help you on your path/journey. Be the GPS of your divorce!

• Assist you in creating and honing lifelong skills and tools for communication, negotiation, co-parenting, relationship-building, etc.

• Architect smart divorce strategies.

• Help you tap into your own INTERNAL resources, as well as connect with external resources: other divorce professionals, such as family law attorneys, mediators, parenting coordinators, therapists, certified divorce financial analysts, forensic accountants, and others.

• Save your bank accounts from hefty legal fees.

Getting Unmarried^™ allows you to navigate your divorce with flexible coaching services/products/tools. You choose how and when you receive the help you need. For group support, attend an in-person workshop or one of the webinars. For private coaching, set up an appointment by the hour, or purchase a 3-pack, 6-pack, or 10-pack of coaching sessions for sizable discounts. (They never expire, and are even transferrable to a friend in need.) Download some of Getting Unmarried™ online products to gain knowledge and tools wherever you are, whenever you need them. You get to pick and choose so that you can create the best, personalized route through these tumultuous times.

Coaching can be done one-on-one in person, or remotely. Call 310-963-9563 or email kira@getting-unmarried.com to schedule your free 30-minute session, and find out if coaching is for you.